Of course all this help is useless without your help. You will need to go to the alcohol treatment center where your child is staying to find out if what they are doing is helping or hurting your child. You will also need to be their support system when they are returned to you. That means you will need to visit them often. They need to know there is someone on their side on the outside. If you follow this advice then everything comes together to form an ideal situation for a full recovery. Once your child is returned to you, you have to be understanding and allow your son or daughter to live without you being on top of them all the time.